Mainland Chinese TV drama “Nothing But Thirty” has become popular, telling the story of the inner thoughts of women in their thirties. It seems like everyone can find themselves in the three female leads, Gu Jia, Wang Manni, and Zhong Xiaoqin.
Just became a mom and changed your identity, you must deeply empathize with Gu Jia (played by Tong Yao), giving up yourself for your husband and son, putting on a thorny armor to live, even if you stab yourself full of scars, you must move forward! And for those of you standing at a career or emotional crossroads, you must be Wang Mani (played by Jiang Shuying). Working hard alone for your career, the harder you work for a good life, the more difficult life becomes. When feeling lonely and helpless, you meet the prince charming you thought could save you, only to receive a bubble of illusion after giving true feelings. Just stepping into marriage, aren’t you Zhong Xiaoqin (played by Mao Xiaotong)? In the eyes of others, you should be infinitely loved, but in reality, you silently bear various pressures, only you know the bitterness.
No matter if you are Gu Jia, Wang Man Ni, or Zhong Xiaoqin, no matter what kind of life you lead, life at 30 is difficult! In “Nothing But Thirty,” you will find not only resonance, but also many quotes that will make you feel emotional and touch your heart. Although the TV series may end, your life at 30 is just beginning, so remember the following 10 classic lines from “Nothing But Thirty” and let them motivate you to live out a Better Me!
// 關於生活 //
「生活的本質就是，千難之後還有萬難。」
It’s pretty dark, isn’t it? But after living for 30 years, you probably understand that a carefree life is just a nonexistent utopia. The current difficulties may be tough, but looking back, which challenge wasn’t already being overcome in your mind before your feet even crossed it? Life’s hardships are not just a slogan, but a reality!
「三十歲之前看數量，三十歲之後看質量」
You, who are immature, always love to compare with others. You want more handbags than others, you want to travel abroad more than the number of countries you’ve checked in, and even more boyfriends! Looking back on the past immaturity, I now understand that a quality life seeks quality, not quantity. One good quality bag is enough, one deep trip is better than a thousand superficial ones, and as for scumbags? Even one is too many!
「有終點的出發才叫出發吧？可我都不知道自己要去哪兒」
After watching “Thirty But Seventeen”, you will always hope that you can live a more exciting and independent life in the future, but some things cannot be rushed! Gu Jia, Wang Manni, and Zhong Xiaoqin are all heading towards their goals in the middle of their lives. For you who still don’t know the direction now, understand clearly where the destination is before setting off!
// 關於戀愛 //
「到了三十歲，只敢相信那些看得見、摸得著的人和事。」
In past relationships, how many promises have you heard that were never fulfilled? Did you blindly believe that as long as there is love, everything can be solved? Don’t be naive, besides believing in love, you also need to believe in objective facts. Whether a man loves you or not is not the final say! Sweet words are not true love, they are just a means of emotional fraud!
「先把一個人的日子過明白，才知道自己需要怎樣的另一個人」
When you don’t even understand yourself, why should others understand you? First, get along with yourself, clearly understand whether you need a canary-style caged life or a mutually supportive soulmate in the days ahead, then go find the right person!
// 關於婚姻 //
「都說婚姻是避風港，都想避風，誰當港？」
At 30, you may have just entered into marriage, or you may have already destroyed the dream of marriage. A long-lasting marriage requires balance, and it is impossible for one party to give without expecting anything in return for a long time! If you are used to being pampered, try putting yourself in the other person’s shoes and consider their feelings more, be their safe haven!
「變暗淡的不是婚姻，是人」
Love is sweet, but marriage is plain, that’s a fact! Spending a long time together exposes and magnifies everyone’s flaws, coupled with the trivialities of real life, diluting the past sweetness into tasteless plain water. Occasionally remind yourself to heat and season the water, turning it into the life-giving water that can nourish life.
// 關於事業 //
「三十歲的機遇，抓住了就立住了」
“At the age of thirty, you are no longer the naive newcomer in the workplace who is clueless about the ways of the world. After accumulating experience, you must equip yourself well. Opportunities wait for no one, and your future success may depend on whether you seize the moment now.”
「女人三十的隱忍，是接得住打擊，也放得下面子。」
The ability to bend and stretch is a woman’s skill at the age of 30, putting away impulsiveness but not yet reaching the stubborn stage. Always remember this unique advantage of being 30 years old, you have the ability to pick up and let go, nothing is a big deal!
// 關於三十 //
「沒有二十歲的肆意灑脫，沒有四十歲的雲淡風輕。三十，想要的是更好的生活。」
In the end, live the life you want, bravely face the exciting thirties!
