In recent years, the trend of “simple weddings” has become increasingly popular, more or less due to the pandemic forcing a shift towards simplicity. However, some people have discovered their true preferences because of the pandemic: “I realized that I don’t necessarily need a ‘traditional’ extravagant wedding.” Behind the notion of “tradition” can stem from personal preferences, but it can also be blindly following what others do. Just like choosing an engagement ring, is it more important to follow the crowd or stay true to oneself?
The value of diamonds vs the value of personality
The saying “I won’t marry without at least one carat!” used to be heard a lot, following the crowd, it feels like an engagement ring should have at least one carat to be considered proper. However, in order to highlight the weight and clarity of the diamond more, while also considering providing enough protection for the diamond, the market mainly tends towards certain types of prong setting designs. To avoid overshadowing the visual effect and focusing the cost on the diamond part, under a certain budget, even if the style of the ring has some variations, it is relatively simple. At first glance, when you wear it on your hand, it gives off that “elegant” feeling, right? However, if you value an exclusive value, you may boldly break out of the conventional framework, starting from your own personality, and you may have unexpected gains.
Recently, when a friend saw the engagement ring on my hand, their first reaction was, “Wow! (The band) is so thick?” (Definitely not a symbolic style), showing that most people still hold onto certain established concepts about engagement rings. On the contrary, the diamond on the ring is only 30 points in size, but this is my heartfelt choice. Instead of trying to show off “how well I got married” or the image of “elegant wife,” I care more about being true to myself every day.
Durable Platinum vs Stylish White Gold
Apart from the weight of the diamond, does the choice of material also limit your thinking? Assuming you already have a certain concept of the difference between platinum and white gold, or you have heard that when buying wedding rings, people tend to choose platinum rings. Indeed, in terms of durability, platinum is indeed higher than white gold, but as long as your daily life does not involve wearing rings to handle bleach and cleaning agents bare-handed, or insist on using alcohol to clean the ring, in fact, white gold is sufficient for everyday wear. In addition, white gold is made with a strong alloy and gold, making it more resistant to scratches and impacts than platinum.
As for the appearance, the clean white of 18K white gold is also suitable for highlighting the brilliance of diamonds. If you want to be more special, you can also choose 18K rose gold or 18K yellow gold.
Single diamond ringvs“n” diamond style
The classic style of a single diamond ring has always been a symbol of engagement rings, making it easier for people to focus on the diamond. A single diamond also carries the symbolic meaning of loyalty and unity between two people. However, more and more examples are breaking out of this established framework.
The “Toi et Moi” double gemstone ring, which was already famous during the Napoleon era, has once again become a popular choice for celebrity wedding rings in recent years. With various styles combining different colored gemstones, different cuts of diamonds, pearls with diamonds, and more, it fully expresses the meaning of the union of “you and me” in today’s context.
Actually, whether traditional or breakthrough frameworks, meanings, etc. are all set by people. Compared to following trends or conforming to tradition, how will you be loyal to your choices today?
